BRCA Journey

  • Nothing is Sexier Than Being Alive

    Dealing with insecurities, looks and kids. We have a 12 year old and she is growing up. Yay! Nothing is more rewarding as a parent than seeing your kids age with confidence and compassion. She is doing just that! She… Continue reading

    Nothing is Sexier Than Being Alive
  • How to Wear a Bra After Flat Closure

    Truth. You don’t need to. But, maybe you want to. There are several reasons. Maybe it’s a style that goes with your outfit. I love an off the shoulder but also like to have my sports bra at the top… Continue reading

    How to Wear a Bra After Flat Closure
  • Thrive During Flu Season

    Taking a look at my favorite go-to holistic remedies. Being sick during winter seems like an inevitable. But it doesn’t have to be. The girls are constantly bringing home stuff from school and constantly blowing a nose or hacking up… Continue reading

    Thrive During Flu Season
  • Breaking the News… “I’m going flat.”

    You never know how family will respond when telling them: a) I want to remove my breasts strategically to avoid our family legacy of certain early death and b) I’ve decided to do it without reconstruction. Let’s start with the… Continue reading

    Breaking the News… “I’m going flat.”
  • Fuck it, I’m going topless!

    As a kid I used to say (I have no idea why, maybe I had a premonition) that if I had breast cancer, I’d go flat and walk around topless doing my yard work and such. At least for a… Continue reading

    Fuck it, I’m going topless!
  • Getting my pump on 🏋🏻‍♀️

    Getting back in the weight room after each surgery was the hardest. I was restless, sure. But I was also really tired. My body had been through a trauma after all. Back Story: Being a life long active, ball to… Continue reading

    Getting my pump on 🏋🏻‍♀️
  • Life’s Perspective Changes Everything

    Perspective 1: My Kids are growing up. They are no longer little toddlers and snuggle monkeys. They were so cute. I want them to stay little forever. Perspective 2: My kids are growing up! They can read, grab their own… Continue reading

    Life’s Perspective Changes Everything
  • Takin’ the Lady Parts

    Now that my implants are out (Novemebr 2023), it was time to focus on the remaining lurking bomb. The ovaries. A part of my previous surgeries was removal of the fallopian tubes. 💡 Did you know? They believe that the… Continue reading

    Takin’ the Lady Parts
  • Waking Up Flat

    I never felt so good going into a surgery. The day had come for explant and I was ready. I was ready to feel like me again. To feel like my authentic self. To heal from the weird rashes and… Continue reading

    Waking Up Flat
  • Life With Implants

    I’d love to say that I got the mastectomy with reconstruction and life was perfect. That I avoided breast cancer AND got new boobs. But life had different plans. There were many surgeries to “fix” the imbalances, to fix the… Continue reading

    Life With Implants